Last weekend I was checking out at Hobby Lobby, and the woman in front of me had eight paint by numbers kits in her cart. Eight. Everything from Starry Night to a custom portrait of her golden retriever.
The cashier casually said, āStocking up again?ā
She laughed and replied, āThis stuff makes me feel like an artist.ā
I remember thinking ā is she actually becoming an artist? Or is she just executing an expensive set of coloring instructions?
Let me be direct: paint by numbers wonāt make you an artist, but thatās not the point.
Itās like asking ācan a treadmill make you run a marathon?ā
Technically, no.
But if youāve never run before and canāt make it around the block, spending three months on a treadmill first ā whatās wrong with that?
The problem is when people stay on that treadmill for three years, then wonder why they still canāt run a marathon.
Here are three hard facts you need to know:
Fact one: Your brain isnāt ācreatingā when you paint by numbers
When people draw freely, the prefrontal cortex ā the part responsible for decision-making and creative thinking ā lights up. When people do paint by numbers, that part is mostly quiet. What lights up instead are the visual cortex and motor cortex.
In plain English: your brain state during paint by numbers is closer to washing dishes than writing poetry.
But thatās not necessarily bad.
If you just spent six hours in strategy meetings at work and your prefrontal cortex is ready to go on strike, coming home and not wanting to make any decisions ā paint by numbers is perfect. It keeps your hands busy while your brain can zone out.
Thatās its real value.
But if you think youāre ālearning to paintā? Those expectations might need adjusting.
Fact two: Skill transfer is almost zero ā unless you actively hack the system
People can complete dozens of paint by numbers kits and still freeze in front of a blank page.
They know how to fill in colors.
They donāt know how to paint.
Itās like playing Guitar Hero for six months, then someone hands you a real guitar. Pressing colored buttons and actually playing music are two very different things.
The only time skill transfer really happens is when people stop treating kits as finished products and start treating them as material to analyze.
Instead of immediately taking a photo for Instagram, spend ten minutes asking yourself:
Why is the sky three blues instead of one?
Why are distant trees lighter than close ones?
Why is that shadow purple instead of black?
Then ā and this is the key part ā grab a blank piece of paper and try to paint anything using what you just noticed.
Most people never do this step. They finish, post, buy the next kit. Rinse and repeat.
Thatās why three years later theyāre still saying, āI just like coloring, I canāt actually paint.ā
Fact three: 70% of adults never get past the āexecution layerā
Creativity isnāt a switch. Itās a building.
First floor: execution ā you can hold a brush and control paint without making a mess.
Second floor: decision ā you know what to paint, what colors to choose, how to compose.
Third floor: concept ā you have ideas, style, something to express.
Art schools assume everyone already lives on the first floor. Reality is most adults donāt. Their last painting experience was elementary school art class, where everyone painted the same turkey and learned that ālooking wrongā felt embarrassing.
Paint by numbers gets people through the first floor quickly.
The mistake is treating the first floor as the destination.
This is especially true for adults starting late ā people who want structure without being talked down to. Thatās also why adult paint by numbers exist in the first place: not as shortcuts, but as scaffolding.
Weāve been asking the wrong question
The real divide isnāt āpaint by numbers vs free creation.ā
Itās passive consumption vs active learning.
Iāve seen two extremes.
One person completes fifty kits. Her Instagram is gorgeous. Ask her to paint her backyard and she panics: āOh no, I canāt actually paint.ā
Another completes far fewer kits, but after each one she deconstructs what she just did, then tries something else. Her feed is messy. Lots of failed sketches. But now she can create independently.
Same tool. Completely different mindset. Completely different results.
Paint by numbers is a mirror ā it reflects how you learn, not what it can teach you.
Paint by numbers reveals a blind spot in art education
Paint by numbers exploded during the pandemic, not just because people were stuck at home, but because traditional art education never built a reasonable on-ramp for adults.
Want to learn piano? Clear progression.
Want to learn a language? Same thing.
Want to learn painting? āHereās a still life. Good luck.ā
When beginners struggle, theyāre told āart is subjectiveā or āas long as youāre happy.ā That sounds kind, but it teaches nothing.
Paint by numbers fills that gap by offering three things art classes rarely provide:
Immediate success
Zero shame
A clear definition of ādoneā
Most people using these kits arenāt escaping creativity. Theyāre escaping failure.
Imitation isnāt the enemy
Every master copied before they created. Thatās how learning works.
The problem isnāt imitation. The problem is stopping there.
A simple inflection-point rule helps: for every three paint by numbers you finish, try one original piece. It doesnāt have to be good. It probably wonāt be. Thatās the point.
If you keep resisting that step, itās worth asking yourself why.
Social media changed what ācreatingā feels like
Paint by numbers is safe to post. If someone criticizes it, you can always say, āItās just paint by numbers.ā
Original work doesnāt have that shield.
Thereās no moral judgment here ā just honesty. Are you choosing paint by numbers because it helps you grow? Or because it lets you look creative without risk?
Both motivations are valid. Confusing them is the problem.
Practical note, not advice
If youāve never painted before, starting with paint by numbers is fine ā but difficulty is where people quietly trap themselves.
Too easy, and nothing transfers.
Too hard, and they quit.
Iāve written more about how paint by numbers difficulty actually works for anyone who wants the breakdown. You donāt need it to agree with this article. Itās just there if youāre curious.
The deeper truth
Paint by numbers gives you the ritual of creation without the vulnerability of creation.
Thatās why itās comforting.
Thatās also why it can become limiting.
One day youāll finish a kit and feel the framework is too small. When that moment comes, the question wonāt be whether paint by numbers failed you.
Itāll be whether youāre ready to step beyond it.